The truth is reality does set in. Adam and I did not live with each
other before we got married, so I learned a lot of new things.>>[LAUGH]
>>And I had to get used to it.>>Like what?!
[CROSSTALK] You have never lived with any man!>>I’m still attracted to him, but yes,
there are times, Lonnie, I hear you. There are times where I do get frustrated. I’m a very, very clean person and it’s
not like he’s not clean, he’s just messy. He has an organized mess.>>He’s a guy.>>Yeah, he’s a dude,
and so my pet peeve is I don’t mind washing the dishes,
It’s actually like therapy for me. But please, after you eat,
can you rinse it off?>>[APPLAUSE]
>>Right?>>My gosh!>>Especially when it’s the stuff that’s caked on the bottom of the bowls.
>>I’ll tell you, there’s something that when you were dating him that’s
different now that you’re married, and that’s different.>>Different?>>When you were dating,
it was sweeter, it was nicer.>>All of my things are things that
I found out now that we’ve been living together. I hate it,
I don’t know what it is about guys. I can have a basket by the side of my bed, where he can put his dirty clothes,
he never puts it in the basket. It’s there,
he just puts it around the basket. So it’s those things. I know I can’t be alone in this and
that just drives me insane. However, I don’t think
the fantasy has to end. You can keep the butterflies still there, sometimes you just have to
work at it a little bit. For me, I think it’s very
important to stay intimate. I realized that there are some
sexless marriages out there, and a lot, it’s a shame.>>It’s actually a lot more common
than people are honest about.>>And why is that?>>I don’t know.
>>I think it’s because when there’s no mental connection,
no emotional connection, that there’s no physical connection.>>Ooh.
>>I think so.>>But when you’ve let it get to
that point, it’s been too far along.>>There are also some people
that just don’t enjoy sex, sadly.>>Who are those people?>>But
do you know that before you get married?>>Not if you’ve never had sex
with a person, I guess not. You wouldn’t know that.>>Lord.
>>But I think you could possibly know from conversation,
you know if somebody’s into those.>>Honestly, my life-
>>I think innately, we know.>>I know.
>>That they got like a low.>>Wait, I don’t know. Hold on, I got a lot of friends and I don’t think I’ve ever met
somebody who doesn’t like sex.>>There are absolutely-
>>Doesn’t like sex with their spouse?>>People that are-
>>Or doesn’t like it->>You need to come to the club. You hear all kind of stories at the club.>>Jeanie, you’ve never had girlfriends
that be like, I just don’t wanna do it.>>No, and
if I did they can’t be my girlfriends.>>We gotta talk about this some more. We gotta talk about it later in some other
shows because this is serious business.>>That’s a whole nother topic.>>I’m not her and she’s not me, though. I’ll tell you that much..>>[LAUGH]